comadose wrote: ↑Sat Jan 24, 2026 10:54 am
PayPal lets you create a payment link for a specific amount. No issues with physical goods not being shipped then.
The usual reason to use the friends and family method is to avoid PayPal's fees, and to make it harder to dispute transactions. That's why it feels sketchy.
Is it really "helping people" at $40 a shot? That sounds like running a business. Don't you have a website? There are lots of payment processors who integrate with a basic website.
i am aware of buy buttons but they are for physical goods unless you have a business account and i dont have one of those.
trust me know about paypal fees i have paid over $22,000 in fees last year
i use the buy buttons for my drive purchases
i tried to have a website 3 times and got dropped all 3 because of the stuff i sell and dont get me started on payment processors they just want to keep it all if they dont think you run a legit business to many bad experiences way to much red tape i gave up on it.
we just have to accept people look at us as sketchy from the outside and it only gets worse if everyone on the inside is calling us sketchy too you have to go by our reputation in the community
my remote flashes were free for years marty's too but i was spending hours a day team viewering into peoples pc for free manually flashing their drives and while i was there they ask can i also setup vlc to do direct playback and oh its also not bitstreaming sound to my avr can you fix that too and well i know how to do it all and its only another 5 mins it spirals
and this also actually got me banned from teamviewer multiple times even though i was making no money and i really needed it at the time for my grandpa as they changed his tv setup and it was to complicated and i would teamviewer in and set it and put on what he wanted.
sure i got around the bans with vms but my main pc was banned

so everyday to help him extra work booting up a vm.
so when it stared to affect me being able to use my own stuff normally i had to charge for it and make it automated
thats enough ranting you get the idea im not here to scam anyone optical drives are going away for now (hopefully not forever) so volume of orders for flashers is way down so prices needed to go up.